Lady Zamar, the acclaimed singer, delivered a candid and thought-provoking Twitter post, offering powerful advice to women everywhere.
She urged them to take a leaf out of men’s dating playbook and set their standards high when it comes to choosing a partner.
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In her lengthy note, Lady Zamar emphasized that women often settle for men who fall below their own worth, leading to heartache and a loss of self-esteem.
men date according to how they see themselves… this is why they hardly ever settle for just any woman who loves them no matter how sexy or beautiful.
however, women tend to settle and date lower than they see themselves, usually deciding to get married to men who love them and…
— Lady Zamar (@Lady_Zamar) June 19, 2023
Drawing a stark contrast, Lady Zamar pointed out that men typically date based on how they perceive themselves, rarely settling for just any woman who adores them.
This selectiveness helps them maintain their sense of self-worth. On the other hand, women tend to compromise and accept men who may treat them well but fall short in other crucial areas.
Lady Zamar highlighted that when a woman invests her time and emotions into a substandard man who ultimately cheats or mistreats her, it becomes even more hurtful and demeaning.
Unfortunately, many women stay in such relationships, losing sight of their true value and feeling an odd sense of resemblance to their partner.
This can lead to a decline in self-esteem and a distortion of one’s self-image.
To break this cycle, Lady Zamar urged women to adopt a mindset more commonly seen in men.
She advised them to maintain high standards and not be swayed by the opinions of others who claim they will never find someone who meets their criteria.
Lady Zamar assured her followers that there are indeed men out there who can rise to those standards.
However, her empowering words didn’t sit well with some men who felt provoked by her statements. In the comments section, they expressed their disagreement and dragged Lady Zamar into a heated discussion.
I see you trying to decieve those young women,wena you are the last person to give such advices or else South Africans men will end up in jail
— Roto_Ndwa (@RotondwaTshusa) June 19, 2023
Lady Zamar’s powerful message serves as a wake-up call for women to value themselves and demand the respect and love they deserve.
By raising their standards, women can avoid entangling themselves with unworthy partners and, in turn, prevent their self-worth from being diminished.
It’s clear that Lady Zamar’s words struck a nerve, igniting a passionate debate about gender dynamics in relationships.
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As the conversation continues to unfold, it’s crucial to remember that empowerment and self-respect are at the heart of her message.
Let us all strive to vibrate higher and pursue the partners of our dreams, without compromising our standards or allowing anyone to devalue us.
