Vuyokazi Nciweni Says She Gets Zero Help From Mpumelelo “No Co-Parenting, No Coins, No Calls!”

Reality TV personality Vuyokazi Nciweni is done sugar-coating her truth — and this time, she’s naming it plain: she’s raising her kids solo.
The former Izingane Zes’thembu star opened up to Baby Yum Yum about life as a single mother of two and dropped a few bombs along the way.
“There’s no co-parenting, no allowance, no involvement. It’s just me and my parents raising my kids,” she declared, adding that her parents’ love is the only constant in her children’s lives.
Vuyo Nciweni “No Baby Daddy in Sight”
Vuyokazi shares her two kids with Mpumelelo Mseleku, the son of polygamist and businessman Musa Mseleku, but according to her — that’s where his role ends. She made it clear there’s zero contribution coming from her famous ex.
Instead, the reality star credited her parents and her aunt for stepping up where her baby daddy didn’t.
“Their love gives my kids so much stability,” she said — a subtle but sharp jab at the man missing from the picture.
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“Men? Not Around My Kids — Period.”
After that public breakup with Mseleku came an even messier fling with celebrity chef Xolani Sabelo, which ended in chaos after Sabelo claimed she “forced him into marriage.”
Now, Vuyokazi says she’s guarding her peace — and her children — like never before.
“My kids have nothing to do with my love life, and no man will come near them. My parents don’t want any man around my kids unless it’s a husband one day. Last year, I made a bad choice and learned my lesson,” she said, with that kind of tone that says ‘never again’.
From Pain to Power
Vuyokazi’s story has inspired many women, especially those stuck in loveless or toxic marriages, to walk away and start over.
“Don’t stay in relationships that break you mentally. Take your kids and leave,” she advised.
While the baby daddy may be missing in action, Vuyokazi’s message is loud and clear — she’s not waiting on anyone to play father or provider.
She’s doing just fine, no co-parenting required.
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