Mihlali Ndamase Names Alleged Stalker, Says Obsession Turned ‘Frightening’

South African influencer and media personality Mihlali Ndamase has dropped a chilling public statement that has left social media deeply unsettled.

In what she describes as an act of self-preservation, the beauty mogul alleges that a man she rejected has subjected her to months of stalking, harassment, intimidation, and privacy violations—to the point where she now fears for her safety.

And this time, she named names.

Mihlali Ndamase Alleges Stalking and Harassment After Rejection

In her statement, Mihlali identifies the man as Michael Brits, also known online as “Mike.” According to her, his behaviour escalated after she rejected his romantic advances—quickly turning what she describes as pursuit into something “obsessive and frightening.”

Mihlali alleges that she has been:

• Followed without consent
• Photographed and monitored, allegedly by people paid to track her movements
• Had her privacy invaded
• Seen her family approached in public, crossing a line she says should never be crossed

She further claims that false and damaging stories about her personal life were deliberately spread online and, disturbingly, picked up by some media outlets—adding to reputational harm and what she says has further endangered her safety.

Her words make it clear: this is no longer gossip—it’s fear.

“No Means No” — Why Mihlali Says Speaking Out Was Necessary

Mihlali confirmed that she is actively engaging with law enforcement and has begun taking legal steps to protect herself. She explained that going public was not about drama, but survival.

“Silence has become unsafe,” she said, framing her statement as a necessary move to reclaim control and protect herself.

She ended her message with a powerful reminder that has since gone viral:

“A woman does not owe access to her life, her body or her time because she was pursued. Rejection is not provocation… No means no!”

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The statement has sparked widespread concern, with supporters praising her bravery while reigniting conversations around consent, entitlement, stalking, and the dangers women face after saying no.

As discussions continue to unfold online, many are calling for accountability—not just from the alleged individual, but from platforms and media spaces that amplify unverified narratives at the expense of women’s safety.

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