Actress and author Ayanda Borotho is known for her powerful performances and captivating writing, but she seldom talks about her body.
Recently, she opened up about her struggles with insecurities and the lasting impact of hurtful comments she received about her body after becoming a mother.
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Taking to her Instagram timeline, Ayanda shared a snapshot, celebrating a moment of self-appreciation and love for her body.
‘If I’m being honest, I’ve battled severe body insecurities. Three kids later, and being told ‘you’ve gained weight’ (as if the body of my 42-year-old self should match that of my 20-year-old self). The things people say can stick so much they become an invisible wound.”
“Despite growing emotionally intelligent, some comments can still affect you. After all, we are only human. Some days, I feel confident, and on others, I don’t. But yesterday, I didn’t care about anyone’s hurtful words. I wanted to embrace that moment and appreciate it,” she courageously shared.
Ayanda’s journey to self-acceptance has not been limited to body image. She previously revealed the pressure she felt as a model child to avoid disappointing her parents, leading her to be hard on herself when making mistakes.
In a candid interview with SurgeZirc SA, she expressed, “Failure, for me, meant letting my parents down and not being allowed to make mistakes. We are taught that it’s not okay to falter.”
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Beyond her personal struggles, Ayanda has also explored the theme of secrets in her work. She once said, “The secret about secrets… is that everyone has them.”
This sentiment reflects her belief in the beauty and sacredness of her culture, which she considers a safe haven. As a resilient woman who continuously challenges herself, embracing such growth opportunities has become an essential part of her journey to self-discovery and empowerment.
