It is the beginning of women’s month and Enhle Mbali is already crying out for help. She has just torn our hearts apart. Ohh shame I can’t remember when last I saw so much pain in the eyes of somebody.
Black Coffee’s wife who has been through a lot without us noticing chose a platform to heal. Buh she might just be using the wrong platform. On her new platform, Enhle came out to speak about her marriage and all the cheating scandals that her husband has been involved in. Well, so she only recalls two or maybe those were the ones that cut where it hurts most.
Enhle Mbali who was supposed to be interviewing DJ Zinhle and allowing Zinhle to pour her heart out just went the wrong way. Eventually, viewers discovered that the episode was about her and how she as an individual needs to discover who she really is.
Below are some of her quoted heart-aching words:
“I had gone through it and I knew how it felt and I know what media does to you when you’re going through hell. They celebrate it. I thought would it be strange if I call and say ‘hi if you want a shoulder to cry on, I’m here’? I remember seeing how you were in that situation.
“It’s a bad space to find yourself in, especially to be going through it publicly. People don’t get that you love a person and it’s not about you. Right now let me live life the best way I know how,” Enhle said
“I went through two cheating scandals. One there was a sex tape and one was just ratchetness, and I remember in my pain, tears and strength and silence I thought to myself, ‘Why do I care so much? Why do I want to listen to society saying he’s cheated on you twice, go? What is my heart saying? What is my spirit saying?’”
“Cheating for me is not a big issue as everything else, everything else … being you walked into the house, you came from another’s woman’s arms, you sat with me, you sat with our child … It the betrayal of you sat me with our children and he lied to me every single day. On top of that it the person we allowed into our home and our space. It is with the person I loved”
As she uttered those words pain was written all over the face like she was going through deja vu.
As she goes ahead trying to convince everyone and mostly herself that she has healed she says: “I don’t know if you have noticed but I have been unapologetically myself. I am liberated and I feel ..yah this is me… I have forgotten myself but I have found myself, I have allowed myself to say Enhle rocks.”
Clearly, Enhle has been courageous to come out to the public and yell for help and this should not be ignored. She might put up an act that she is happy but she mentioned the word pain (of which is what she is going through) more than 100 times in 40 minutes.
Her fans are suggesting that she goes to a therapist and I am also suggesting that she finds a better way to heal as that all the things she mentioned as her way of healing were just her trying to somebody else. I hope she does lose herself whilst trying to survive through the rain.
Enhle needs to go for therapy, also i never understand this talking about Bonang in these interviews and trying to mute her name its hypocritical
— Jedi (@Letlole99) August 3, 2019
Another funny thing. Enhle only acknowledges two times her husband cheated on her, what about all the other times 😭😭
— Lindo (@LXXNDO) August 4, 2019
If this is how Enhle has decided to heal we shouldn’t clown her for it.
— Retsuko (@and0therdrugs) August 4, 2019