Sex before marriage is always an interesting discussion to engage in though these days it does sound normal for unmarried couples to engage in sexual activities. When Zenande Mfenyana raised the topic out of frustrations it sparked a heated argument.
The Queen actress gave birth to her little princess last year, she did keep her pregnancy as a secret for long. It got to a point where some viewers noticed on their own as the star’s body drastically changed. But that’s old news now and today we’re talking about falling pregnant as a Christian which was brought up by Zenande.
At this point, we aren’t sure whether she was talking about her personal experience. But it sounded like she was talking about her very own experience. Taking to Twitter the new mom wrote: “One day we must discuss the Biblical concept of being asked to step down from the worship team coz you have fallen pregnant. Is this in the scriptures? Or is it done to humiliate the expectant mom? Why is sex seen as a punishment in the church? Questions we will one day tackle.”
One day we must discuss the Biblical concept of being asked to step down from the worship team coz you have fallen pregnant. Is this in the scriptures? Or is it done to humiliate the expectant mom? Why is sex seen as a punishment in the church? Questions we will one day tackle 🙇🏽♀️
— Zenande Mfenyana (@Zenande_Mcfen) February 17, 2021
Interesting topic right? Well her followers had different views, with some giving her lessons and scriptures supporting that sex before marriage is a sin and the church can therefore demote or ban any member who decides to engage in such.
Another added her experience. “In my case I worshipped until I decided to stop going to church and focus on my pregnancy. After giving birth I continued with serving God in worship. I had asked for forgiveness from God. I didn’t care about what the church thought was right because even judging is a sin.
Sex out of marriage is a sin.
— Pfungwa Ndoro 🇿🇼🇳🇦 (@pfungwandoro) February 17, 2021
Some churches they believe in “No Sex Before Marriage” hence your pregnancy will disrespect the laws of your Pastor, then you have to be demoted once you become 🤰🤰🤰 pic.twitter.com/D72VgYi7vM
— Mzwakhe (DJ Mvubu) (@enock39) February 17, 2021
They also don’t remove drunkards
— Ausi Shoeshoe (@ShoeshoeMoshoe) February 17, 2021
Read the bible first so that we can discuss after. pic.twitter.com/L0wVnohh3E
— Lonwabo Mswati (@ltunyiswa) February 17, 2021
My only problem with this practice is the boys goe free, he even leads the songs and interprets for the Pastor while the lady is in shame, why coz boys dnt fall pregnant? They committed the same act so they must ‘punished’ 2geda
— Thobile Masango (@MasangoT_) February 17, 2021