Now, we’ve have sensed from far that Black Coffee and Enhle Mbali’s divorce is going to be a nasty one!
With the famous and loved couple divorce case trial starting next week, all family members have been emotionally wrecked. One thing that made the whole scenario worse it that it history just repeated itself again.
This time it brought two little ones to the world. Yep, your thoughts are correct the major reason why Enhle Mbali is divorcing her international DJ is that she couldn’t stand his cheating anymore.
However, this news isn’t entirely surprising. Black Coffee had two side chicks of which he impregnated at the same time. The side chicks now both have kids aged 12 months and 14 months. Yooh dude has been busy I mean he only left a 2-month gap. Talk about a Zulu man with some power.
Well, Black Coffee was interviewed about the divorce and he didn’t deny these allegations. Here’s what he had to say:
“In April this year, I sent a lengthy email to her in which I suggested that we should separate and she should find a place to stay with the kids and I would pay for it. I did that because I wanted us to improve our marriage and be more involved with them. But she declined the offer,” he said
“I wish I could speak [about this], but me speaking won’t serve any purpose,” said the emotional DJ.
“I believe I have done enough to try and fix things. I don’t want to speak about her faults – she is the mother of my children after all. Whenever I was wrong, I admitted I was wrong. We tried everything, such as seeing a therapist and a life coach, but nothing worked. We have reached the point of no return. For the first time we are understanding that we can’t be together,” he said, adding that he has accepted that their marriage ended a long time ago.
“Going through the pain alone is very painful. I was fortunate that I was on tour. But my pain drives me to perform better on the decks.”
Talking about the prenup agreement of which it’s believed that he forced his wife to sign it the DJ said.
“There were witnesses. It wasn’t imposed. It was an agreement between two parties. As an entrepreneur, I invested in different businesses so it was impossible to sign in community of property. I am not hiding [any] wealth,” he explained.
Black Coffee said even though there had been disagreements with his wife he never stopped doing his duties as a husband.
He added that the reason he wanted to do more for her was that she had been part of his life for long through thick and thin she had his back.
“But it seems the more I offer, the more they tell her to ask for.”
He also said his wife is unstable as they had discussed to let everything slide but she took him by surprise.
“Both of us had even agreed to see the mediator – the deal was done. But I got a shock of my life when the sheriff of the court served me with divorce summons on the same day that we were supposed to see the mediator. I felt like someone died,” he said.
“I still made sure that I paid her monthly allowance, she had a roof over her head and 24-hour security.”
If you ask me this was more like a marriage of convenience, I mean Black Coffee doesn’t mention anything about affection all he talks about is money and material things. Huuu shame this marriage was a mess.
But he said he did not have any regrets.
“I did what I could until the last minute. She had made many mistakes. Unfortunately, we have to move on and that’s what unconditional love is [all about]. I’ve been at that place where I am swimming in sorrow, blaming myself.”
According to sources, a lot will be revealed in court when the matter is heard in the next few weeks.
“People are going to be shocked when they hear the whole truth behind. What has been reported so far is far from being the truth, worse is coming. What is more disturbing is that these two children are very young – one is 14 months old and the other is 12 months old. What is sad is that the news [about the children] was broken to Enhle informally by one of Maphumulo’s family members who told her that ‘these things happen in a marriage’.
“Although Mbali was aware of her husband’s cheating, this broke her heart even more,” said a source close to the situation.
“Mbali has been through a lot in her marriage. She tried everything to be a good wife and mother. For many years she suffered in silence, trying to save the marriage. But this time around she had had enough,” claimed the source.
When Enhle Mbali’s mom was asked to comment she whipped and said: “I am more emotional than her. Unfortunately, this is a sensitive matter between two parties. The law must take its course. I cannot say much for the sake on my daughter and grandchildren,”
For memories sake, here’s a video of the shattered couple in happy times:
— Kgopolo Mphela (@PhilMphela) April 24, 2017